Peacemakers in the Garden of Life
- Debra Flaming

- Mar 1
- 2 min read
Sunday, March 1st, 2026
There is a difference between keeping the peace and making peace.
Keeping the peace often means avoiding hard conversations. It means stepping around tension like a muddy patch in the garden — hoping it dries up on its own.
But peacemaking? Peacemaking is different.
Peacemaking requires courage.
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” — Matthew 5:9
A peacemaker does not pretend the weeds aren’t there.A peacemaker kneels down, pulls back the soil, and gently but firmly removes what is choking out life.
In the garden, weeds don’t disappear because we ignore them.In relationships, tension doesn’t heal because we stay silent.

Early spring is an honest season. The garden beds reveal what winter has left behind — brittle stems, matted leaves, hidden debris. Before dahlias can flourish, we clear the ground. We prepare it. We make room.
Peace works the same way.
Peacemaking means choosing humility over pride.It means listening to understand rather than listening to respond.It means softening our tone even when our emotions feel sharp.It means asking, “How can I contribute to healing here?” instead of “How can I prove I’m right?”
The world often teaches us to win arguments.Christ teaches us to win hearts.
Peacemaking is not weakness. It is strength under control.It is restraint when we could react. It is grace when we could retaliate.It is patience when we would rather rush to judgment.
And just like planting dahlias into cold soil too early can cause rot, forcing resolution without warmth and gentleness can damage trust. Timing matters. Tone matters. Tenderness matters.
As we step into March, I’ve been thinking about the kind of soil I want to cultivate — not only in our fields at Flaming Acres, but in my own heart.
Am I creating conditions where peace can grow?
Peace requires warmth. Peace requires patience. Peace requires intentional tending.
Sometimes peacemaking starts with something as simple as saying,“I’m sorry.” Or, “Help me understand.” Or, “You matter more to me than being right.”
Spring invites us to begin again.
In the garden, we get a fresh start each season.In relationships, God offers that same grace — new mercies every morning.
Perhaps this March, as you plan your garden beds and dream of blooms to come, you might also consider where peace could be planted in your life.
Where might humility loosen hardened soil?Where might kindness water something that has felt dry? Where might forgiveness allow beauty to bloom again?
At Flaming Acres, we believe beauty grows where it is intentionally cultivated.Peace is no different.
May this be the season we choose to make peace — not just keep it.
And may the God of peace prepare our hearts as carefully as we prepare our soil.
Sincerely,
Debra Flaming
Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being the God of peace.Soften our hearts where they have grown hard. Give us courage to pursue peace instead of avoiding it, and humility to value others above ourselves.
Teach us to listen with grace, to speak with kindness, and to plant seeds of reconciliation wherever You have placed us.
As we prepare our gardens this spring, prepare our hearts as well —that peace may take root and beauty may bloom.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.



