The Power of Forgiveness
- Debra Flaming

- Sep 21
- 3 min read

A Call to Personal Reflection
Today, as I watched the memorial service for Charlie Kirk, I was struck by the thread of hope that ran through the grief, and the central truth that forgiveness is the heartbeat of the Christian faith.
Tucker Carlson reminded all of us that true change in a culture does not begin in governments, programs, or movements—it begins with the individual. Each of us must look honestly at our own lives, repent, and deal with our own offenses before God. Only then can forgiveness flow outward, and only then can true transformation ripple through families, communities, and nations.
Erika’s Testimony of Forgiveness and Faith
Erika Kirk shared a powerful and deeply moving testimony: she forgave the very man who assassinated her husband. She did this because she is following the example of Jesus, who, while hanging on the cross, prayed for those who crucified Him: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” Her courage to extend forgiveness, even in unthinkable pain, pierced my heart.
She also spoke of her marriage to Charlie. Their life together was marked by mutual service, comfort, respect, and love. Their shared mission was to promote faith, family, and freedom—all founded on the unshakable foundation of Christian principles. They were truly in it together, building their life and ministry hand in hand, with Christ at the center.
A Revival Sparked Through Loss
Out of this deep sorrow has come something unexpected—a stirring of revival. The impact of Charlie’s death has reached across the nation and even around the world. Churches are overflowing, hearts are tender, and people are hungry for the truth of God’s Word and the hope found only in Jesus Christ.
Even here in our own church, the sanctuary was packed today. Many couldn’t even find a place to park, but still, they came—because there is a hunger rising like never before. People are searching for answers, longing for hope, and discovering that true freedom and healing come only through Christ. What the enemy meant for evil, God is using for good, to awaken His people and call many into His Kingdom.
The Heart of the Christian Message (The Power of Forgiveness)
But along with this hope-filled revival comes a sobering warning from Scripture: “If you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:15). We all have sinned. We all fall short of the glory of God. We all desperately need His forgiveness and redeeming grace. Forgiveness is not optional—it is the lifeblood of the Christian walk.
This challenges us to pause and ask: Is there someone in my life I need to forgive? A wound I’ve been holding on to? A bitterness that has taken root? Jesus forgave us at the highest cost, and He calls us to extend that same grace to others, not because they deserve it, but because He commands it.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing sin or erasing justice. It means releasing the weight that binds us, handing it to God, and allowing His healing to begin in our hearts. It means refusing to let bitterness have the final word.
A Personal Call to Action
Friend, I encourage you today: take this message personally. Do not let it pass by as someone else’s duty. Pray and ask the Lord to bring to mind the people you need to forgive. Then, in obedience and trust, release them into His hands. Forgiveness may not change the other person, but it will certainly change you—and it may just set you free.
Let us honor Charlie’s legacy and the message shared at his memorial by choosing forgiveness, living in the hope of Christ, and reflecting His redeeming love in a world desperate for change. And may we join the great wave of revival sweeping across our land, opening our hearts wide to the Spirit of God who is calling us back to Him.
With hope in Christ and a heart committed to forgiveness,
Debra Flaming



